After much thought over the previous entry, I feel that it is actually very difficult to be a good parent. In fact to be a parent, sometimes can be diffcult too.

Let's see. More than often, we always hear children comparing their parents to their friends' parents. Most of the time, the person who is comparing will say that their friends' parents are better than theirs. In fact, when comparing parents, children always say the negative side of their parents. Most common negative comment about parents is they are too naggy. Afterwhich, children NEVER say that their parents care for them. I am not sure if that apply for all parents but for my parents, I feel that they nag for my own good. Just like simple things, don't play too much netball. I will feel angry at times when I hear this. I know my parents do not want me to over-excert myself. However, sometimes, I also feel that parents are overly worrying for us that sometimes we lost our ability to be independent and be ourselves.

Parents are indeed difficult to be. They are worried for us yet sometimes they just simply can't control their level of worry. Can't blame them for this actually. More than often, the media been reporting about danger in the society. Sometimes, it is also the child's fault that causes the parents to be so worry for he/she. For example, parents been nagging at a child to study. However, no matter how much nagging the parents give to the child, the child just simply slack and lazy to do his/her homework. The parents there are worrying that the child is unable to do well. Here, the child just don't listen to the parents and keep on slacking and being lazy. Follow up is children saying their parents are too naggy and don't care about what they really want. In this kind of cases, how can parents don't worry for the child? Then, the parents will become over-caring.

*Sigh* How should a parent be to give the child the best?

Sometimes it's good to just close my ears and live in my own world with only myself doing nothing..

It's contradicting.. I want an exciting and adventurous life yet when there's obstacles, I am just dead with it.. Is money so great that our fate is decided by it? More than often money is the obstacles that I met and got "killed" by it..

With the growth of GST, my life is just going to be like a dead fish if money is going to continue to be the obstacle. There will be more limitations!

Should parents be supportive to what a child do? or Should a child be obedient and do whatever is set for the child by the parents? or Should it be both ways communication?

More than often, we can hear our parents that it is for our own good. In fact, teachers will also tell us that whatever parents do are for our own good. Is it really so? I always agree with this and I will continue to agree with this. Parents care for their children However, are all ways of caring good for a child? Did society change the ways that parents care for their child?

Will Singapore be better if we are all still leaving in kampong and each family has 3 or more children? I really have to say that if I have a chance to live in kampong and each family has 3 or more children, I will do so. Personnally, I feel that society really change the way parents care for their children. In the past,parents do not worry about their children going hungry but now parents worries that their children do not have enough food. This is because in the past, there were farms in the kampongs. Children in the past get to learn how prevent themselves getting hungry. Nowadays, more than often I am hearing stories of parents over-feeding their children.

Sometimes, parents are really being over-caring that the child lost his/her independent skills. What make things worse is when a child wants to be independent, the parents stop them from doing this, doing that because parents are too worried that their children may hurt themselves. But if a child never get to experience how will we ever learn?

What should be the way a child should live?

Is love suppose to be sweet or painful?

Been struggling to come out with a new skin.. somehow some of the code I just don't understand.. -.* Gonna spend days figuring out..

Sch ending soon.. last lesson to go on fri before ending sec 3 life.. =)

BUT there are TON of homework to be done.. ~.`

Here's the list of homework..
Chinese composition - 2 stories are needed to be written in the composition
E.Maths TB Review- Unit 13
A.Maths TB review- Unit 10
E.Maths 5 year series- More than 50 questions
A.Maths 5 year series- More than 50 questions
English Newspaper report- 2 newspaper articles are needed
English book review- Need to read 2 books and write 2 different book review
English WS- come out with rules to determine the change of irregular verb
Speech correction- re-construct the problematic sentences
Geography Project- Promote M'sia & S'pore
Physics Papers- 2 paper 1 and 2 paper 2
Physics WB- Unit 16
A.Maths TB- Ex 11B

This is enough to kill me man! HA! I am complaining anout homework! hahaha!

Before I forget.. There will be testS when school reopens in 2007
English Grammar Test- wk1
E.Maths Test- 9/1/07
A.Maths Test- 23/1/07
Physics Test- wk2

Oh man! Nvm! this is called life.. hahaha.. oh well.. afterall we are sec 4 next year.. ITS ALL FOR OUR OWN GOOD! lolx..

hehehe.. =D

Last 3 days of school already!! hahaha!!

All the best to all who are taking O! Ganbette!

Here to blog my homework..

Maths FYS
A.Maths 5YS
2 Phy Paper1 and Paper 2
English WS
Geog Proj
Chinese WB
Bio TB

Things to be done
Li Ling's Photo
return library books
book badminton court
Tournament on 12th Nov
Bring the money to school
Return PY money
Go Vivo City & QW shopping center


I think tt's about all.. Did I miss out anything..? please tag mi if i do! =)

There is a reason...


Is there a season for a reason to be present?
When there is a reason, will that be an excuse as well?
Things that make you smile, why?
Things that draws your tears, why?
Memories which delights you, why?
Memories which pains you, why?
When there is a reason, acknowledge it. For it enlightens most of it.
When there is a reason, be gay, for it may just lead you to that ray!
When there is a reason for you to move on, wait no more for any season.
When there is a reason that delivers a message, let it be the guide in your passage.
When there is no more ryhme, take time to look for a reason.
There is always a reason... just out there for you to tag on...


I copied this from on of my friends' blog.. It lighten up my day.. Hope it will lighten up your day too.. =)