Sometimes it's good to just close my ears and live in my own world with only myself doing nothing..
It's contradicting.. I want an exciting and adventurous life yet when there's obstacles, I am just dead with it.. Is money so great that our fate is decided by it? More than often money is the obstacles that I met and got "killed" by it..
With the growth of GST, my life is just going to be like a dead fish if money is going to continue to be the obstacle. There will be more limitations!
Should parents be supportive to what a child do? or Should a child be obedient and do whatever is set for the child by the parents? or Should it be both ways communication?
More than often, we can hear our parents that it is for our own good. In fact, teachers will also tell us that whatever parents do are for our own good. Is it really so? I always agree with this and I will continue to agree with this. Parents care for their children However, are all ways of caring good for a child? Did society change the ways that parents care for their child?
Will Singapore be better if we are all still leaving in kampong and each family has 3 or more children? I really have to say that if I have a chance to live in kampong and each family has 3 or more children, I will do so. Personnally, I feel that society really change the way parents care for their children. In the past,parents do not worry about their children going hungry but now parents worries that their children do not have enough food. This is because in the past, there were farms in the kampongs. Children in the past get to learn how prevent themselves getting hungry. Nowadays, more than often I am hearing stories of parents over-feeding their children.
Sometimes, parents are really being over-caring that the child lost his/her independent skills. What make things worse is when a child wants to be independent, the parents stop them from doing this, doing that because parents are too worried that their children may hurt themselves. But if a child never get to experience how will we ever learn?
What should be the way a child should live?
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